
ABOUT RECRUIT FOR SPOUSES
We Value: Authenticity, Community, Legacy and Grit
Who We Are
Recruit for Spouses is an independent and award winning social enterprise dedicated to supporting, championing and finding gainful employment for an untapped talent pool of spouses and partners to members of our Armed Forces.
We work to overcome outdated perceptions about mobility and suitability and provide the tools for spouses to return to the workplace and excel in their chosen path.
We provide unparalleled understanding and support of the employment situation of military spouses and provide a supportive community for spouses to get back into the workplace.

Our Journey

2009
Early 2009
A New Chapter Begins
Heledd marries an Army Officer and gives up a job she loves as a horse racing office manager due to relocation with his military service.
July 2009
Discovering Strength in Community
As a stay at home Mum with her newborn son in a remote military base, Heledd experiences real isolation but finds support within the local spouse community, realising its strength.
December 2009
Recognizing Employment Challenges
Following another relocation, she recognises that employment challenges are widespread across military bases.
January 2010
Early Research & Realizations
Begins researching available support for military spouses and discovers that they need Commanding Officer permission to work from home in military quarters.
2010
Early 2010
The Entrepreneurial Start
Borrows £100 to launch on the angel network, securing first investor Palmer Winstanley, who is currently serving with the Rifles.
2011
June 2011
The Birth of Recruit for Spouses
Registers Recruit for Spouses (RFS) on Companies House as a social enterprise, initially as a job board.
July 2011
Advocacy and Mentorship
Collects signatures from across the UK (by post) to highlight the employment issues faced by military spouses. Receives mentorship from Heropreneurs and launches the Military Spouse Business and Employment Charter Mark to support military spouses in finding employment.
2012
September 2012
A National Platform for Change
Launches the Business and Employment Charter at the House of Commons and presents the petitions to No 10. Appears on Radio 4's Eddie Mair Show, resulting in over 3,000 website hits in 10 minutes, indicating high demand and support from military spouses.
October 2012
National Recognition
Wins the Prime Minister’s Big Society Award under David Cameron, who describes Heledd as inspirational. This recognition leads to significant media coverage and meetings with senior government officials.
december 2013
First Success Story
Successfully places the first military spouse, Emma Cheedy, in a job and receives £50 for the effort. I was delighted with that!
2013
december 2013
Validation and Support from Deloitte
Gains a place on Deloitte’s Social Pioneer Programme for 2 years, providing significant support and validation.
2014
december 2013
Advocacy Gains Momentum
Continues extensive lobbying and advocacy work, receives LIBOR funding in May 2016 to support RFS.
2015-2016
december 2013
Government and Corporate Partnerships
Meets with Defence Minister Gavin Williamson, who commissions the "Living in Our Shoes" report. Begins partnerships with BAE and AMS, and creates the RFS Career Academy CiC.
2017
december 2013
Innovating for Flexibility
Develops the Liquid Workforce model to provide flexible job opportunities for military
spouses.
2018
december 2013
Growth and Refinement
Continuous growth and refinement of RFS services.
2019
december 2013
Overcoming Pandemic Challenges
Faces challenges due to COVID-19, losing much of the Liquid Workforce and reducing staff to two members. In October, signs a contract with Virgin. By June 2021, AMS Liquid Workforce demand increases by 600%, necessitating team expansion.
2020
december 2013
Strengthening the Workforce
AMS Liquid Workforce continues to grow. Recruit for Spouses strengthens its team and services, adapting to the evolving needs of military spouses and employers. The achievements of RFS highlight the resilience and determination of military spouses and the importance of ongoing support for this community. Additionally, the Coaching and Mentoring Programme saw significant expansion, doubling in size.
2021
Growing the Virgin Red Genies
december 2013
2022
december 2013
Women into Leadership Program Launch
Partnered with the Office of Veterans Affairs to develop the Women into Leadership Programme, empowering women within the veteran and military spouse community to step into leadership roles with confidence and impact.
2023
december 2013
Expanding Opportunities with New Partnerships
Partnership with Study Academy and the Open University to grow the offering to spouses.
2024

Awards
Women in Defence winner, Heledd is a Fellowship of the RSA and is one of the UK’s Timewise top power 50 in bringing forward flexible working for military spouses. She has been named as one of the top 100 Women in Social Enterprise by NatWest Wise and is a member of the Society of Leadership Fellows.

Our Team
The team boasts a wealth of experience, with a combined board tenure exceeding 50 years in recruitment governance and accountability. What truly sets this group apart, however, is their deep personal connection to the military community.
Every member of the team has lived the unique and often challenging life of a military spouse, giving them firsthand insight into the complexities and sacrifices involved. This shared experience keeps the military spouse at the heart of everything they do, informing their decisions, shaping their policies, and driving their commitment to support and empower fellow military families. Their personal understanding of the lifestyle ensures that every initiative and program is designed with genuine empathy and practical knowledge, making a real difference in the lives of those they serve.